In fact, in most things, effort does not necessarily mean that you will get the results you want, but the effort you put in will definitely give you a chance to get closer to the goal you are looking for. Compared to talent, the role of effort is too minimal. You must have met a genius who played every day in school, but could get the first place in the exam, and must have seen more people who studied every day but always hovered on the passing line.
In reality, there are many people who have experienced or seen many things in their lives that cannot be changed by human beings, and gradually have come to understand the role of “fate” outside their own subjective consciousness, and after realizing that fate does have its ups and downs, finally admit that human subjective initiative does not play a decisive role in a person’s life, and that fate The influence of the fortune, still occupies the absolute role. Suppose I push the box, the box will move forward as a rule.
Take a simple example, a card table with 4 people playing cards, without considering cheating, someone will definitely get a good card, and someone will never get a good card, this is the luck. Very often, luck and your efforts are not related, just like the lottery. Some people spend a lot of time studying the lottery charts, you can’t say he didn’t work hard, but he just couldn’t win the jackpot, while some people just came up with a bet and won.
The same day of the examination, the results of similar people may be in the examination when the play of good and bad, the results of life to a completely different path. The person who did poorly on the exam may be one point away from getting a scholarship over the good one.
People working in the same year, the performance is similar, maybe because the leader and one of them occasionally in the dinner more than a few words, his career will go one step faster.
At the same time, people start a business, and even sell exactly the same thing, the store is very close to each other, but one of them is doing well, but the other is getting worse and worse business, can not do, can only close down.
Even two people who were diagnosed with cancer at the same time, one had an operation and recovered well after the operation, and lived for more than ten years without recurrence, while the other passed away the next year.
These are real stories that I have seen, experiences in normal social life, people’s views on fate, they don’t want to live under the arrangement of fate, but everything is arranged by fate.
Someone once told me this: “You actually see the many, many helpings of fate to you, the enrichment of fate to you as what you deserve, you are too arrogant. So you think back carefully, to think back to the many experiences you have encountered in this life, many important moments, you suddenly realized that you are a very small person, leaving the help of others, the blessing of others, the blessing of fate, you are nothing, if not for the shelter of fate, you would have died.”
And fate is this group of young, young, ignorant of society, the young people do not want to believe in. They will think that a person’s life is by hard work, struggle, perseverance to play down, why should all these be credited to fate? Destiny, if not in your own heart, and where to look. I can only believe in myself, never believe that people have been destined by fate at birth. They prefer to believe that if they work hard enough, they can get a promotion and a raise and live a perfect life. But when you encounter adversity, it is easy to stumble and fall into a complete denial of self.
But it is important to understand your own destiny and use the right way to allow yourself to gain the initiative of your destiny, rather than falling from the extreme of disbelief into another superstitious extreme, believing that everything in life is dominated by fate.
Life is like a train, which stop it will go through, what the end point is, who will accompany you through the journey, and where you will get off, are all predetermined. When you were a teenager, the girls you met talked to you about love, but at that time you did not know how to love, you learned how to love someone in your twenties, but never met a girl who talked to you about love. Is it that the times have changed? No, there are people who believe in love in any era, but you have already met them, you can not catch, this is life.
Fate is inevitable. But it can only outline a general trajectory, the actual operation will be affected by many factors. Everything is chance, your chance to make a chance to meet a chance person, and life can not go back and come again, so people will think that because of chance and the things that have been predetermined.
Of course, to do anything, we have to work hard, because what luck will bring you is unknown, and when it will come is anyone’s guess, but we have to be ready to work hard, and when good luck comes, we can achieve greater success. I also believe that people can get out of adversity through their own efforts. As long as you walk toward the sun, you can leave all the gloom behind and be a light chaser.
